Something to write

Relationship...Owh...why do i picked this boring subject? Duhhhh

Ok, it's just something that I would like to share with my dear readers on how to overcome the negative feeling which can make your day (or days) unproductive.

Lesson Number 1
You can be sad, it is normal to be sad. But please ask yourself, how long it would take before you can be happy again? What can makes you happy? Why you are crying? What are other important things that had been demoted to unimportant due to your grief? Is your tears worth it?

We tend to ask 'WHY' question despite knowing that they wont get the answer. Change it to the questions I've listed above and you will realized:
1. You don't know how long it's going to be.
2. You are sad because of something which is beyond your control.
3. Family and friends are there for you. Allah is always there for you..lucky that you are still breathing.
4. You are wasting your precious time.
5. Your tears doesn't worth a thing.....

Lesson Number 2
Once you asked yourself the questions, your mind will be clearer. The next thing to do is to list everything that you should or shouldn't do...ON PAPER.

Lesson Number 3
You also will realise one thing - It's your choice...Your very own choice to be miserable.
Make yourself happy. Distract yourself, meet people, balik kampung or what ever..just make yourself happy.

Lesson Number 4
Get support from your friends or family. Make them remind you not to make the same mistakes again.

Lesson Number 5
By time, you will feel that you need someone to fill in the gap..Bullshit!!! You don't need anyone..all you need is yourself!

Lesson Number 6
Be strong...

After sometimes, you will realized that you have recovered well.
:)


-Hafiz Safwan-